When I normally look at Children, I spend time thinking and planning all the different things Im going to do, say, teach, train them to do so that they can become some sort of figment-of-my-imagination-super human being in some distant future. I evaluate, plan, and consider old activities, new activities, and still newer challenges and opportunities Id like them to have. The task and goal is to see their future, and move them onto the path that they are supposed to be on.
This means that I dont spend a lot of time appreciating where they are, right now, in the moment. I take a moment to evaluate where they are and then think about where they need to be, but I never see how far theyve come. I never look back and think about their progress, their growth, or their amazingness right now.
However, over the past 10 days, due to some choices Husband and I have to make about the future, Ive been forced to study, evaluate, and appreciate where Children are right now. And Im blown away. This is not about praising Husband and my parenting skills, or what phenomenal programs weve managed to find for Children to make them great. This is simply about them. Their character. Their personality. Their motivation. Their resolve. Their resilience. Their joy. Their curiosity. Their intelligence. Their spark. Their childhood.
Its been a bit of a heart wrenching and soul searching time for me trying to make some choices, but its at the same time been a huge blessing to me to think about Children and to thank God for making them who they are. Special. Perfect. Wonderful. Mine.
I had all three Children home today, and although there were crazy moments of crankiness, and a moment of extreme frustration as I discovered the stove top was broken, I tried to spend more time appreciating them in the "right now" instead of thinking only of the "what do they have to do." Together we made some of these yummy simple treats, and Daughters passed them out to their piano teachers.
Apricot Almond Shortbread Bars
(adapted from Ina Garten’s Foolproof)
Makes 9x13 pan, about 16 to 20 bars, depending on how you cut them
Ingredients
2 sticks (1/2 lb) unsalted butter, room temperature
¾ cup sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
2 ? cups flour
½ teaspoon kosher salt
12 to 15 ounces good apricot jam
1 cup sliced almonds
Method
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees.
Place butter and sugar in the bowl of an electric mixer with a paddle attachment or in a bowl where you will use your hand mixer. Mix on medium speed until just combined. With mixer on low, add vanilla.
Sift flour and salt together and, with the mixer on low, slowly add to the butter mixture, mixing until it almost comes together in a ball.
Lightly pat 2/3 of the dough evenly on the bottom of a 9x13 inch baking pan (Ina Garten uses a 9 inch square pan) Spread the jam on top of dough, leaving ¼ inch border.
Mix almonds into remaining dough with your hands. Crumble and mix together into small bits and distribute on top of jam, covering most of surface. Bake bars for 45 minutes, or lightly browned.
Cool completely and cut into 16 to 20 bars.
Printable recipe
Another something to savor and appreciate - just the way it is at this moment.
